These are starting points, not scripts. The texts that work best sound like you, mention something only the two of you know, and leave room for her to answer. Change a word, add a detail, then send.
Every example is suggestive, not explicit. Where it goes from there is up to the two of you, in private, once you've both said yes.
How to use these sexting examples
- 1Pick the momentGood morning, flirty, teasing, spicy or late night. Each set fits a time of day and a mood.
- 2Shuffle until one fitsPress Next text for a random example. No repeats until you've seen the whole set.
- 3Make it yoursCopy it and add a detail: her name, last night, an inside joke.
- 4Or practice firstSend it to one of our girls. She replies in character, so you can see where it goes.
How to sext: 7 tips that actually help
Good sexting is a conversation, not a performance. These habits make it fun for both of you.
- Start slow. Send something flirty first, then see if she raises the temperature.
- Ask questions. "What would you do if I were there?" gets her talking.
- Be specific. "I keep thinking about the way you laughed at dinner" beats "You're hot".
- Mirror her. If she says "tease me", tease her. Match her pace and her words.
- Tease more than you tell. Suspense is half the fun.
- Don't spam. One good text beats five in a row.
- Know when to stop. Short replies, a change of subject or no answer all mean pause.
Sexting and consent
Sexting is only fun when both people want it. Before anything spicy, make sure the flirting is mutual. If you're not sure, ask: "Is this okay?" is sexy, not awkward.
- Never send a sexual photo nobody asked for. Besides being rude, it can be a crime: Texas made it a misdemeanor in 2019.
- Never share someone's messages or photos without their permission.
- Only sext adults. Both of you must be 18 or older.
- Screenshots exist. Send only what you'd be okay with the other person keeping.
Practice sexting with an AI girlfriend
Nervous about what to say? Practice with an AI girl first. Our characters are fictional adults with their own personalities, so a shy girl answers differently from a bratty one. It's private, judgment-free, and she never leaves you on read.
For more on how it works, read our guide to AI sexting. Looking for words for the moment itself? See our dirty talk examples.
Updated October 2026







